What to keep in mind when going to escorts
Tips for men who want to bring an escort to the bedroom
Should I bring a escorts to my wife?
If it’s her idea, yes. Make sure you find a quality escort, truly sensual. Remember, many escorts are willing to have sex with women for money, but I can’t tell you how many times I’ve witnessed such encounters, where the experience was completely false and mechanical. I always wanted to have a beautiful woman as my client. And I really have a fantasy of being the mistress of a beautiful woman. But it is not uncommon for a beautiful woman to look for an escort.
I once met a couple. The woman wanted to live this fantasy. It was a wonderful experience. The woman was not my type, but still, she was very pretty. I can’t explain the intensity of the touch between the women while the man is watching them. Both the woman and the man were interested in me, so I didn’t mind the situation I was in. She made me let go, while her boyfriend watched me. This made me wonder if this openness in a couple is really a good thing.
If some fantasies sound good in theory, are they good in reality? I used to tell my ex-boyfriend about my threesome fantasies. He liked it when I talked about it, but he told me he would never do it. Why not? He said he was not healthy for a relationship. His argument was: if we do it once, what will happen if one of us feels that uncontrollable desire to do it again and again? I like to be open in a relationship, but sometimes the lack of boundaries can cause a disaster.
As an escort, how much should you ask clients for?
It is about the law of supply and demand, which varies from one city to another. For example, there are a lot of “cheap” women available in my place. More women lower prices. My price is high for my city, which means I limit my clientele. I adjust my price according to the city I am in. For a while I worked abroad, in a rich city, and therefore my price went up. There is a demand for “high quality” escorts, but these women are in the minority in the sex industry.
I must also point out that not all girls can be successful. Men have certain expectations from women who charge higher than average rates. Some expect an expensive escort to be exceptional in some way, whether it’s beauty, intelligence or sensuality. Although I work part-time, I consider myself a very skilled courtesan. Over the years, I have learned how to meet a client’s needs and how to behave to please them. If a woman does not meet the expectations associated with her price, then she will not have loyal customers. She must be worth the money.
Why would an escort refuse to see another client?
Well, some men develop strong feelings for some of us. A problem arises when love comes only from one side. Love is an irreversible thing…. You can’t expect that by telling a man not to love you anymore, he will change his emotions. Sometimes these people can interfere with our personal lives. When I lived abroad, I had a devoted client who had fallen in love with me and had become very close. However, I only saw him as a favorite customer. He had become obsessive and I had to avoid seeing him again. There are also issues of morality. In rare cases, the escort is the one who is attracted to a certain client and therefore would feel uncomfortable to see him as a client.
You may be shocked to learn that I, as an escort, have my own morals. Sometimes clients are too honest about their personal lives. They openly tell me that they are married and have children. In the days when I was working at the brothel, one of my clients gave me too many details about his life and therefore I rejected him. Why? He was a very nice man, but his ideas were in conflict with my way of thinking. When I first met him, his wife was pregnant with his second child. He told me that he has two jobs because he wants to give his family a better life. He claimed that he could use the reason that his wife is pregnant to go to prostitutes, because there is no more intimacy between them.
He also talked about how much he loved his dear wife. However, ironically, he was spending a lot of money to spend time with me. I couldn’t justify that. He was not well off financially and the money he was spending with me could be put aside. For this reason, I advised him not to come to see me. I told him to go home to his pregnant wife, to offer her comfort and to do something special for her, but not to spend 500 euros to admire an escort for an hour. It amazes me how far some men can go just to have sex and be with a woman.
Did he listen to me? No, of course not. Men love women who are not available. According to him, I was special. I was the only girl he saw. But I felt guilty about taking the money I could use for someone else who needed it most. So, I told him again not to come to me. That was the last time, and immediately after that I gave up working in that brothel. Apparently, he’s still going there to look for me.